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		<title>Run to the edge of a cliff and stop on a dime.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is my one of my favorite Constructive Living maxims.  It takes a little thinking about.  It has that Zen-like obfuscation factor which can be irritating to some – but which I love.
It’s not a call to lemming-like suicide as you might think.  Perhaps another C.L. maxim of a similar nature would [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is my one of my favorite Constructive Living maxims.  It takes a little thinking about.  It has that Zen-like obfuscation factor which can be irritating to some – but which I love.</p>
<p>It’s not a call to lemming-like suicide as you might think.  Perhaps another C.L. maxim of a similar nature would shed some light.  “Give and give until you say goodbye.”  Or – as a man named Ecclesiastes once put it “To everything there is a season. And a time to every purpose under Heaven.”  Meaning there is a time to run and a time to stop.  When it’s appropriate to run you run flat out.  When it’s appropriate to stop you stop.</p>
<p>I thought of this today as I was watching a Sunday morning political news show.  By the time you read this ,we will either have a new President or a lot of fat cat lawyers will be very busy.  I have strong opinions about whom I would like to be our next President.  Whatever happens, however, I have let go of the outcome.<br />
Letting go of an outcome is a tough concept for some people.  They see it as not having faith in yourself; giving up; being negative.  To admit that you may not get what you want may appear to be defeatist.  In fact – nonattachment to the outcome of your actions is a strong peaceful position to take in the world.  It all comes down to what is controllable and what is not.</p>
<p>My personal commitment to having my guy be the next President is within my control as are my actions which spring from that commitment.  I can give money, time and effort.  I can attempt to sway undecided voters and I can man the phones to get the vote out on November 4th.  But the actual final national outcome of the election is not within my control.</p>
<p>So I give and give until it’s not appropriate to give anymore.  I run until it would be unwise to continue running.</p>
<p>I see what  Reality presents to me and I respond to it.</p>
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